WHEN WE PASS

 I  have been watching a lot of vlogs on You Tube recently about Korean way of life peoples apartments what the cook , buy , eat and all other stuff they do in their daily life its fascinating to watch I don't know why I am so engrossed but they are very relaxing to watch .The ones I watch all seem to be extremely house proud and tidy are all relatively good cooks and chefs , a`lot live in apartments have great sunsets own I-pods and Apple watches sleep on the floor on toppers and mattresses and quite a few have robotic vacuums .

MONDAY - Work never want to go on Mondays the week seems too long too many days to go before the weekend .

THURSDAY - Helen ordered a kit so she can cast her parents hands of them holding each others hands , she bought the same kit that my daughter used to do her mothers hands before she died .I think we are driving over Saturday so we can do the cast you only get one go at getting it right .She is also going to order them a memory book she they can fill it with their likes their life from the past so she will never have to wonder what they did it will be all written down for her to keep .

Her parents both told us that when they die or passover no matter who goes first that this is what they want to happen. They told us that  they are paying Money uprfont  to a company that will collect their body from where you die be it home or hospital and they will take it away cremate the body and return the ashes in a  urn back to the surviving partner . No one gets  to view  the body and there is no service to attend no gathering of relatives of friends its  a simple no fuss affair  , no coffin . or flowers wreathes , pall bearers vicar or priest no ringing of bells , so no cost for a religious service  and no need for funeral cars , or a venue or church etc etc , at a cost of on off payment that is £1600 that's al you pay no matter how many years you live its done no inflation cost no added charges or fees when you pass that's it done and dusted .The cost to bury both of them you are looking at best part of £5000 each at todays prices .