Monday morning at 9-30am i went to the building society before i went to work at Hunslet to withdraw the rest off the over draught money out from the joint account, seeing as i can not close the account or freeze it due to the fact it is in joint names the building society wont suspend the account whilst its in the red or put it in to a single name , so i transferred out £1250 and deposited it in to my savings account , seeing that my x wife as already spent £1740 out of the limit of £3000 which i will be responsible for paying half hence the reason behind my actions.
I did telephone my wife after wards to warn her what i had done and to stop any direct debit payments that she as still set up she took it very well and it seems she is acknowledging the fact the divorce and the sale of the house will go through sooner rather than later it is in her own interest to walk away with as much money as she can from the sale of the house.
transferred the mortgage to interest only which as reduced the monthly payments from £600 to £385 but no capital is getting paid of but at least this will stop the house from getting reposed until it is sold .
I also from speaking to her found out she is starting another job next month which is a step in the right direction and might make life easier for her i hope it does.
Picked molly up from Dogs4us today at dinner time today we took her home and Helen is settling her in and introducing her to Ellie our other westie the first signs are promising and they look like they should get on with each other they are both female , i did take a few pictures before i had to return back to work.