Been of work sick yesterday and today full of cold head aching sore nose headaches and feel sick plus cant stop blowing my nose its constantly running .Letter from estate agents the sale of the house is going through so it looks like its well on track for the sale to complete .
Getting the cavity walls insulated to day so all the drilling wont do my head any good least be warmer even though at the moment i have a temperature any way .Hope i am well enough to go get my hair cut its a right mess needs a decent cut after Helen has cut it the last three times its a bit wild.

At least i can have the internal wall removed so we have a kitchen dinner which will make it the biggest room in the house , i will fit a new kitchen and patio doors out to the rear garden .
Also we will get radiators fitted through out which will cost us £1800 already had a quote but couldn't get the finance the boiler is fine and up to its job .
I suppose i better not be counting too many chickens JUST yet but its nice to know its not all doom and gloom , AND at this stage things are looking up it is nice to know things are changing .
January as been a long month in a new year and things have changes so much i don't know what the rest of the year will bring , but i believe things will change and the end of this year i will be in a totally different position.

Another thing we are considering is a girlfriend for Harvey think it would make him happy and give Helen the chance to make some money , if we could sell the kittens at a reasonable price , what we dint want is a house full of cats so we must sell them on ,easier said then done if they are all cute

LISTENING TO :WILL I,AM SONGS ABOUT GIRLS

The judge says i have to pay the EX £400 a month and back maintenance of £2500 for even when my son lived with me , there has been an attachment of earnings made which will come of my wage.My son works is nearly seventeen and does not go to college.

Went to see the mortgage company after we came out of court they have agreed for us to go on a interest only mortgage which has dropped the monthly payment to £577 from £808.

We have had a offer on the house , a cash buyer is buying it as a result i have agreed to the following ,

1. to pay no maintenance for 18 months
2. no back pay of £2550 to pay
3. no costs for selling the house which is £2100
4. 11k in cash.

i have accepted .I can get on with my life with Helen i can draw a line under it all and it will be the end , no more demands no issues its done and dusted .

At ten am this morning i am in Court in Leeds city centre defending myself against the ex over maintenance payments not looking forward i have no idea how it will turn out.
I hope common sense prevails and i hope i am being watched over and get a decent result and get some good luck when i need it the most.

Today Helen is going in to work to say her goodbyes to people that she has worked with over the years that she has been working at the hospital , no doubt it will be emotional saying goodbye is never easy .

Another day that i have been asked to work over hope it lasts for weeks to come i will do what overtime i can for obvious reasons hehe money we ain't got enough ,i just hope that it lasts until i sell my house or Helen gets another job or six little numbers come up ,it will all come good in the end , we will both have to battle on until we come out tops but sooner rather than later is all i ask, and that we are happy in the end so far so good .

Helen has handed her notice in at work has given them four weeks , her last sick note went in at the same time for four weeks .

I am up in court next Tuesday for maintenance issue's the ex wants more money she even wants money for when my son lived with me , when does the meal ticket end she is with someone else wy cant he support her he more or less moved in with her . my son is seventeen at the end of the month is not in full time education and works part time five nights a week.
Anyway i hope her face lift needs re doing which cost her £2500 , no wonder she wants more maintenance what for now her tits doing.



She would never be capable of having an affair getting two blokes interested in her would be more or less impossible and getting two to shag her forget it .


On a more positive note the house i jointly OWN with said bitch has had an offer made on it for the full asking price so fingers crossed .

Went to Saddleworth to take more photos need a ideal photo that we want to use to put in a frame for our living room wall went ignored the warning lights for the road closed this time we got stuck in two foot of snow.
Helen got out of the car i cleared the snow from behind the wheel and drove back then went forward a foot and back a foot at a time finally got the wheels to grip and could pick up enough speed to clear the drift although it was all over the road going sidewards and sliding , had to drive straight has i had no room to turn around because of the snow drifts.
Picked Helen up 300yards further on nowt like leaving a sinking ship and made it to the next available turning space then drove back to the Huntsman inn other cars where finding it difficult and they also where having to turn around so we were not the only fools out and about .
Went to Saddleworth village bought some cakes and some paraffin for our hurricane lamps back at home , no doubt we will burn the house down that will melt all the snow.
Finally made safely home the end,

Well made it to the new year 2010 will have to think of some new years resolutions only so i can break em.
back at Saddleworth last Sunday 3RD OF JAN 2010 ignored the road closed signs like loads of other drivers did and went to Wessendhead and Dovestone reservoirs was told if the road is really impassable then they have police manning on the road turning cars and drivers away.
Celebrated new years eve with Helen at Anne's house my twin sister and her partner Alan , his daughter and grandaugther , along with Mark and Sue Irene and Ged .
Let loads of fireworks off and Chinese lanterns al aglow in to the night sky .
was at work new years day had to be up at six don't mind its double time.